Hello Everyone! Well it looks like I have landed in Toronto for Nationals! After lots of preparation and packing I’m glad that this day is finally here. Five months ago I was crowned Miss Teenage Coquitlam and I would have never seen myself compete for Miss Teenage Canada with over 75 other amazing girls. I was up at 3:15am to get ready for my flight and now I’m ready for a long nap… just kidding! I’ll be posting daily blogs while I’m away and keep you all posted on what I’m doing and how amazing the experience is! I would like to take the time to thank every single person who has donated, supported me and to those who have been here with me on the experience since I applied for this pageant. I would like to thank my mum, for being by my side 24/7 and helping me through the stresses. I would like to thank my dad, for being my support system and helping make everything for this pageant possible. I would like to thank every single one of my family members for their unconditional love and support and I am so grateful to be blessed with such an amazing family. I would like to thank every single one of my friends for their support, without you guys I wouldn’t be able to get through anything. I would like to thank my best friend Sarah for ALL her support and love and coming out to cheer me on, 14 years of friendship that I have been blessed with. I would like to thank my boyfriend Adam because he encouraged me to join the pageant and helped boost my confidence and thank you for coming out and supporting me and cheering me on. LAST BUT NOT LEAST! I would like to thank every single one of you who has liked me on Facebook, Instagram, any type of social media and those who have donated, attending my fundraising events and to those who are on this journey with me; without any of support I’ve gotten I wouldn’t be this far and I am beyond grateful for the love and support everyone has given me! I hope to not let you all down and stay tuned for post this week while I’m away at nationals!

lots of love, melissa

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My platform is to raise awareness for mental health and to help end the stigma revolved around mental health. After going through mental health issues of mine own, this is the main reason as to why I chose this platform. In grade ten I almost lost my life due to my mental health and my mental health story helps me relate to others and to help them find a way to control their mental health. Mental health is an illness and this illness should not be invisible anymore.  Statistics show that 20% of Canadians will experience a mental health crisis at some point in their life and that suicide is the most common death for adolescent. Anxiety disorders are found in 5% of household populations. It is estimated that 10-20% of Canadian youth are affected by a mental illness or disorder – the single most disabling group of disorders worldwide. Today, approximately 5% of male youth and 12% of female youth, age 12 to 19, have experienced a major depressive episode. And believe it or not, I am part of all those percentages. Recently I’ve been working on a video about my story and how my mental illness has impacted my life. It will be posted up soon I promise but it takes time to open up. A bit about my story; I have always struggled with mental health, I self-harmed for about three years and I had four suicide attempts over those three years and in grade 10 I was hospitalized for my mental health. As being a survivor I want to help those who have struggled just like me because even though I will always live with mental health problems, it will never define me as a person and you can find a way to cope and find happiness and to find ways to get better. My platform means more than the world to me because I have had hard times and I’ve been in such a low state that the thought of anyone else to feel the way I did makes me sick to my stomach. I want to promote my platform as much as possible. Whether I stay Miss Teenage Coquitlam or if I become Miss Teenage Canada, the way I would promote my platform would to be to convince the government to supply more psychiatric beds in the Fraser Health region. My biggest goal set is to try and re-open RiverView Hospital which was our local mental health hospital but unfortunately closed a couple years ago. I plan to achieve these goals that I have set. Remember that you are never alone and you will beat this.

Love, melissa

xoxo

 

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IMG_9888On July 17th Coquitlam Centre, my local mall here in the city sponsored me $575 towards clothing for nationals. I am extremely blessed that they sponsored me and provided me with funky and trendy outfits for my week at nationals! My mum, my stylist and I spent four hours getting our shop on! I found amazing dresses, rompers and shoes for this week. I would like to give a huge shout out and thank you to Coquitlam Centre for helping my dream come true and for treating me so well and sponsoring me. While I’m away from nationals I will be doing and Instagram Takeover with Coquitlam Centre, give them a follow on Instagram for sneak peak pictures of my trip and join me on my journey towards the Miss Teenage Canada crown; also give me a follow on Instagram for pictures of my trip as well! And last but not least, check out my exclusive interview with Coquitlam Centre! Link is down belowIMG_9881

http://runwaytorealway.ca/lifestyle/inspiration/missteenagecoquitlam/

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149 (2)My grandma Delmonico was my best friend and my whole wide world, I have always wanted to be just like her. When I was in grade seven my grandma lost her life to Alzheimer’s. Before heaven took her pain away, she struggled. The hardest part was watching someone who you look up to your whole life slowly stop remembering you. Once my grandma went to heaven, life hit me really hard and I was lost and did not know how to move forward without my best friend in my life.

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As I have grown older I started doing more research on Alzheimer’s as I was so young when my grandma got worse and passed away. Last year my Planning class group raised awareness about Alzheimer’s; I have never been able to talk about my grandma passing away without breaking down in tears but today I read in my local paper that in Coquitlam we have a new program at our Dogwood Pavilion that provides programs for those with early stages of dementia. They do both physical and mental fitness. Since 2008 the program has expanded into 27 communities across British Columbia.  Although there is no cure for Alzheimer’s yet, I pray every day that one will come. For my family, we lost a friend, wife, mother, grandmother and best friend. For those whose family member has Alzheimer’s, know that you are not alone and that when their time comes to leave Earth, they will no longer live in pain. Every second is still a struggle without my grandma here but I will see her one day.

We love and miss you Grandma Delmonico, forever rest in peace. Love your youngest grand baby, Melissa. xoxo 350

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IMG_9704As growing up in a family of mainly all men and being surrounded by Canada’s national sport, I had the honour of doing the Face Off at the Coquitlam Adanacs home game on July 11th. Lacrosse has been the number one sport in my family for as long as I can remember.

354My father, Randy Delmonico is in the Canadian Lacrosse Hall of Fame and the Coquitlam Sports Hall of Fame as part of the team of the 1980 Coquitlam Adanacs, placing in first. My uncles, Tony Delmonico and Nick Delmonico both played lacrosse at a high level as well. My great grandfather, Henry Delmonico was the builder of lacrosse throughout parts of Vancouver and his son, Herb Delmonico was a high level player in lacrosse as well.  My cousins, Jordan Delmonico and Daniel Delmonico have played and coached lacrosse at high levels and found passions in it. My cousin Matt Delmonico went to the states for a lacrosse scholarship and has come back to play for the Coquitlam Senior Adanacs and the Vancouver Stealth. My brother, Kevin Delmonico has also played lacrosse as my father coached him.

IMG_9715Lacrosse is not just a sport in the Delmonico family but as you can see, it’s a huge part of our lives. I had an amazing honour of doing the face off. As growing up in a sweaty change room, and growing up with the Adanac family throughout my whole life, this was a blessed moment. Although my cousin, Matt Delmonico was not playing due to just being hired as a Port Coquitlam fire fighter, I had so much fun cheering on the Adanacs as more than half the team met me when I was a freshman in high school due to my father is a former coach and general manager of this team.  A huge congrats to the Adanacs on their 15-6 victory and I hope to cheer you on in more games and best of luck with the season. Make Coquitlam proud!IMG_9712

Much love, Miss Teenage Coquitlam xox

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Canada has one of the best reputations in the world. In 2013 there was a survey shown 76.6% out of 27,000 people voted that Canada was the safest, had a good structure public policy and the most efficient government out of fifty other countries.

So what is so amazing about living in Canada? There are thousands of reasons for living in this beautiful country, home of the free. I am so honored to be living in not only one of the most beautiful countries, but I am honored to be blessed with such an amazing life this country has given me.

Here in Canada, we as humans have freedom, rights to education, rights to equality and we are all equal human beings. In this beautiful country we accept anyone no matter their race, sexuality or past. This is what makes Canada an amazing and multicultural country.  One of the things I am most thankful for in Canada as a female is my rights to education. In other countries, females have small and or no rights to education due to not being considered a human being but an object.

I am so thankful for my education and that I am able to pursue my career as a registered nurse. My rights and freedom as a women have still yet a long ways to go, but I am proud of how far they have come.

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IMG_9588On July 3rd 2015 I held my first fundraising event for Free the Children.

“Free The Children is an international charity and educational partner that believes in a world where all children are free to achieve their fullest potential as agents of change. We work domestically through We Day and We Act to educate, engage and empower youth to become active local and global citizens. Through our holistic and sustainable development model—Adopt a Village—we work to remove barriers to education and to empower communities to break the cycle of poverty.”

IMG_9592  I held my event at Zone Bowling in Coquitlam where a handful of my friends and family attended. We spent two hours bowling, eating snacks and having fun as a huge group together!

IMG_9590 Thank you to everyone who came out and supported the fundraiser, Amanda from Facade West Salon, the women at my church (Trinity United), Dr John Lee, and Bill Serigera from White Spot for their sponsorship, gifts and donations, and last but not least; a HUGE thank you to Zone Bowling for letting me hold my fundraiser event! I hope to see you all at my next fundraising event.

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IMG_9271On June 25th 2015 I attended the RCMP BBQ in Coquitlam with Share and the Coquitlam RCMP. The bbq ran for three hours and we ended up raising 155 pounds of food for the less fortunate and raised $596.25.

IMG_9267At the barbeque I put my cooking skills to the test and helped flip burgers while also doing the job of serving people and walking around greeting people with Share Bear.

IMG_9289Overall it was a success and I am so happy with the outcome we had.

xoxo, Miss Teenage Coquitlam

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IMG_8749On May 31st I attend the Child Run in Vancouver. My duty was to be a spirit leader and help cheer all the runners on! I was extremely happy that some of the B.C girls attended this event with me and that as a group we could show our spirit and wild side together.

IMG_8744The walk was amazing and I walked the 1K with the other B.C girls! Everyone who ran did an amazing job! Thank you to everyone who came out and supported!

 

xoxo, Miss Teenage Coquitlam IMG_8745

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Sam painting my arms :)On May 30th I was blessed with the opportunity to go to the Ronald McDonald House in Vancouver. At the RMH I and some of my fellow pageant sisters had an amazing time playing crafts with kids and family members with those who suffer from cancer.  We played outside to soak up some vitamin D, painted, played lego and took many silly pictures! The house holds 73 families and it’s truly incredible the hard work and effort that was made to make the house really feel like a home for those who are suffering whether it be a sick child or their family. The kids were so excited to meet us all and they called us princesses! One of my favourite parts was when I got to put my sash and crown and make the girls feel like they were princesses just like us!  This experience was an unforgettable one and we all had such a good time!

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